Mandarin for Social Life

Out & About


From the shop counter to buying someone a drink. Short, real phrases for shops, restaurants and bars — order, pay, and open a conversation.
Lesson 6 of 7

1At the Shop


The shop counter is the lowest-stakes conversation in the country — a few set phrases and a smile do the whole thing. Nail these and you'll never freeze when the cashier rattles something off.

ChinesePinyin (tones)EnglishNote
zhège duōshao qián?How much is this?Point at the item
zhègethisduōshaohow muchqiánmoney
zhège, xièxieThis one, pleasePoint and nod
zhègethis onexièxiethanks
yào yíge dàiziA bag, pleasedàizi = bag
yàowantyígeonedàizibag
kěyǐ shuākǎ ma?Can I pay by card?
kěyǐmay/canshuākǎswipe a cardma(question)
néng wēixìn ma?WeChat pay OK?Mobile pay everywhere
néngcanwēixìnWeChatma(question)
búyòng dàiziNo bag, thanks
búyòngno needdàizibag
Just point and pay

You almost never need a full sentence at a counter. Set your item down, say the short phrase, and let the cashier guide you — a nod handles everything you didn't catch.

2Ordering


Pointing plus one polite word gets you fed anywhere. You don't need the menu memorised — “this one, please” and a finger covers most of it, and asking what's good opens an actual chat.

ChinesePinyin (tones)EnglishNote
liǎng wèiTable for twoHold up two fingers
liǎngtwowèi(people, polite)
wǒ yào zhègeI'll have thisPoint at the menu
Iyàowantzhègethis
yǒu shénme tuījiàn?What do you recommend?Opens a chat
yǒuhaveshénmewhattuījiànrecommendation
yíyàng deThe same, pleaseOrder what they had
yíyàngthe samede(particle)
búyào làNot spicy, pleaseWorth knowing!
búyàodon't wantspicy
shuǐ, xièxieWater, please
shuǐwaterxièxiethanks
A finger is fluent

Point at the dish — on the menu, on the next table, on your phone — and add the polite word. Staff would much rather you point than stay silent.

3Paying


Asking for the bill and paying cleanly is its own tiny social skill. Get it smooth and you walk out looking like you've done it a hundred times — and “it's on me” is a warm little offer.

ChinesePinyin (tones)EnglishNote
mǎidānThe bill, pleaseAlso: jiézhàng
mǎibuy/settledānbill
néng sǎomǎ ma?Can I scan to pay?QR is king
néngcansǎomǎscan a QR codema(question)
kěyǐ fēnkāi fù ma?Can we pay separately?
kěyǐcanfēnkāiseparatelypayma(question)
wǒ qǐngkèIt's on meA warm offer
Iqǐngkètreat / pick up the bill
búyòng zhǎo leKeep the change
búyòngno needzhǎogive changele(particle)
xièxie, hěn hǎochīThanks, it was greatLeaves a good impression
xièxiethankshěnveryhǎochīdelicious
Pay by phone

Tipping isn't expected at most places. Mobile pay (WeChat / Alipay) rules — having your QR ready is smoother than fumbling for cash.

4At the Bar


The bar is where a phrase becomes a moment. “What are you having?” and “may I buy you a drink?” are tiny lines that can open a whole evening — say them light, smile, and let the drink do the rest.

ChinesePinyin (tones)EnglishNote
nǐ hē shénme?What are you having?The easy opener
youdrinkshénmewhat
wǒ kěyǐ qǐng nǐ hē yì bēi ma?May I buy you a drink?Light and warm
Ikěyǐmayqǐngtreatyoudrinkyì bēione glassma(question)
zài lái yì bēi?One more?
zàiagainláibringyì bēione glass
gānbēi!Cheers!Lit. “dry the cup”
gāndrybēicup
jìng nǐTo youA little toast
jìngtoast / honouryou
nǐ cháng lái ma?Do you come here often?Classic, and it works
youchángoftenláicomema(question)
Offer, don't pressure

“May I buy you a drink?” lands as a light, easy offer — not a transaction. Ask, smile, and be just as happy with a no. The relaxedness is the attractive part, not the drink.

You你喝什么?
nǐ hē shénme?
What are you having?
Her一杯红酒。
yì bēi hóngjiǔ.
A glass of red wine.
You我可以请你喝一杯吗?
wǒ kěyǐ qǐng nǐ hē yì bēi ma?
May I buy you a drink?
Her好啊,谢谢。
hǎo a, xièxie.
Sure, thanks.
You干杯!你常来这儿吗?
gānbēi! nǐ cháng lái zhèr ma?
Cheers! Do you come here often?

Pocket Lines


When your brain blanks, these are the words that still come out. One or two syllables each — impossible to fumble. Keep them on the tip of your tongue.

ChinesePinyin (tones)EnglishWhen to use it
zhègeThis onePoint and you're understood
zhèthisge(item)
yíyàng deThe sameOrder what they had
yíyàngthe samede(particle)
duōshao qián?How much?Works anywhere
duōshaohow muchqiánmoney
gānbēi!Cheers!Glasses up
gāndrybēicup
hǎochī!Yum!Say it mid-bite
hǎogoodchīeat
mǎidānCheck, pleaseCatch the waiter's eye
mǎibuy/settledānbill
Small words, big ease

One confident word with a smile beats a perfect sentence mumbled. These six get you through almost any counter, table or bar — lean on them when your mind goes blank.

Mandarin for Social Life · Lesson 6 — Out & About · Point, pay, and offer a drink. The counter is the easiest conversation there is.